When Your Partner Won’t Go to Therapy

When Your Partner Won’t Go to Therapy

What do you do when you’ve done all you can? Despite repeated promises to stop having affairs or talking in chat rooms or sexting with a coworker, your partner continues. There’s a pattern—what seems like an addiction. Your partner says, no, everything’s fine. Or that...
The First Question to Ask

The First Question to Ask

What brought you to this place? It may or may not be the first question that I as your therapist will ask you, but it’s a revealing question that you might ask yourself. What brought you to the place where you’re ready to begin working on your sex addiction? What...
Online Porn and Teenage Viewers

Online Porn and Teenage Viewers

Eighty million a day. That’s how many visitors Pornhub.com draws. And that’s only one adult site – albeit the largest one. Any teenager with a laptop or smartphone can access a continual stream of adult material, and parental controls usually do not filter all the...
Boundaries: Where Do You Draw the Line?

Boundaries: Where Do You Draw the Line?

Most people understand what is meant by the boundaries of their yard or their property, but the concept of personal boundaries can be confusing. Being able to set good personal boundaries not only means that we know how to say “no” when we feel uncomfortable, but also...